9.domination of WOMEN

In this text the author mentions that men "marked" women in so many ways.She used these examples;
-In humans there are 2 different chromosomes X and Y.Where a baby boy cannot live without the X chromosome, but a baby girl can survive with the chromosomes of XO which is a genetic disorder.So men need a "marked" gene to live!!
-We call a male from the age 1 till his death "Mr." but in females its different; we call miss(ms.) to the girls and madame(mrs.) to the women. [notice how we write mrs. ...]

We can combine this text with the film "killing us softly". The author of the film emphasized that women had been using for the pleasures of men.They use us in media, fashion, and in beauty most commonly.For example a woman with a nice body can expose herself in a commercial and can gain a lot of money.But are we sure that we wanna be a billionerre in this way?? For me its ridicilous to expose by body for the pleasure of men or help a product to make it sell more.

We can see examples of "marking" in the text of a woman on a roof.In there, the woman in red bikini rejects to hide away from those 3man who were peeping at her because she was "half naked." and insisted in avoiding them.For those men she was a precious material which could sunbathe their pleasures and eyes.

In conclusion, there are mentalities to use woman as a pleasure material for men but we -as strong, independent womans- should fight back, resist and finally dominate ourselves!!!
Because a woman is precious more than the most beautiful diamond in the world...

4.Male or female??

There are 2 genders for the beginning of the world- boys and girls. Males have masculine characteristics where as females have feminine.As the cultures developed different tendencies occur.Gays have a bigger part of feminity in them rather than normal men so their behaviour resemble like woman.People can't take it kindly gays and their behaviours that they push gays away from the society, they ignored them-still are- and so gays keep oneselfs to oneselfs and they created their own societies - they created their own bars, festivals, meetings etc. Lesbians on the other hand have both masculine and feminine parts in them.

With the creations of gay things lesbians occur later.They immediately participate gay society so the public named both for lesbians and gays as a full name of -gay! In gays relationships one person of the couple becomes a "man" and the other a "woman". This stratification is only to hoodwink the publis's eye.In cultures there must be woman-man figures in the soicety to prevent the uproar.So because of this public suppression gays stratify themselves.

Holland is the only country that stands for the rights of gays.Marriage, child adoption and other things are legal in there so gays prefer to live in Amsterdam.

I think its wrong to define genders straightly.Some of us may be afraid of the other sex in us.Men often suppresse the feminine parts in them and do everything to put mask of a macho man.Women are too not always comfortable of their masculine parts.They try to hide this to show the outside world that they aren't vulnurable or fragile.

All of these hidings are because this world is the world of the tough,the powerful, the one who could bare every difficulty; but none of these plans can help the person to hide what he/she really is.

But many psychogologists believe that a person is a complex of masculine and feminine parts.So without limiting genders i think we should look this conception of gender as a whole.By this we can be "complete".